Do you want to literally drive a woman crazy? The preamble is important, warming up the moment little by little and then setting the pace until they climax. Can you imagine? For this, locating your girl's erogenous zones , knowing how to stimulate them and fill them with pleasure is key. So keep reading because we tell you everything you need to know so that your partner reaches heaven and melts with pleasure.
What are erogenous zones?
When they talk about erogenous zones we are talking about the parts of the body whose stimulation results in sexual arousal. Each person has those areas that excite him in different parts or different degrees. In general, these areas are the ones with the most nerve endings and therefore greater sensitivity (in addition to the genital organs).
What are the erogenous zones in women?
Although not all women respond the same to a stimulus or caress, there are certain areas that when stimulated can drive a woman crazy, mainly the clitoris and the vagina, but there are other very common ones, they are the following:
- The navel: This has many nerve endings, so kissing, caressing and tickling around it can stimulate very well. Although remember to do it gently since it is an area where tickling can occur, which could cause laughter or annoyance.
- Mouth and lips: They are erotic parts par excellence, you can bite, kiss, lick, rub, there are many ways to explore these areas, if you gently stimulate them you will be able to obtain an incredible and pleasant result.
- The ears: Many women are turned on by having their ears kissed. This is because the flow of blood that reaches them makes them perfect areas to stimulate, especially the lobe and the rear.
- Neck and nape: Kissing or licking these areas and then continuing with the back is an explosion of sensations for many. Starting a massage there and combining it with kisses and caresses is a good option to warm up a promising encounter.
- Breasts and nipples: If you know how to do it, you will surely love it, that is, kiss them gently, you can suck, lick and bite, but be careful, bite very gently, do not overdo it because contrary to what you want, what you will cause it will be annoying. Stimulating them will surely make them reach maximum stimulation.
- Your fingers: The hands and especially sucking or licking the fingers gently, can cause maximum excitement, to continue with a night of passion.
- Hair: Many women like to have their hair and head touched, so if this is the case with your girl, take the opportunity to play with her, gently massage her scalp and then hold her hard while you kiss her , this has a relaxing effect.
- The thighs: Caressing them as if you were going to reach the vagina, but returning just when you are about to touch it, usually has very pleasant effects, go ahead and try it!
- The tail and the anus: Without a doubt, the anus is a part of the body for total arousal, so if you already have a bit of confidence, start by stroking the tail and little by little begin to stimulate the anus. Remember that due to so many nerve endings, you will achieve incalculable pleasure.
How to stimulate my partner's erogenous zones?
To stimulate your girl's erogenous zones, you can create an environment that increases that sexual desire, these are some recommendations:
- Create expectation: Go slowly, don't be in a hurry, focus on giving and receiving pleasure, but, above all, generate expectation, this helps stimulate the senses and let the imagination fly. Increase desire!
- Use your tongue: lick, kiss, suck, use your tongue.
- Masturbate her: accompany the stimulation of those areas with masturbation, touch her, she'll ask for more!
- Create a romantic atmosphere: candles, flowers, dim light never hurts.
How to know if my partner feels pleasure when stimulating his erogenous zones?
Look at his face, it's the best sign. You must be aware of his expressions, if he writhes with pleasure, you have nothing more to ask, clench your teeth, your lips, hold on tight, all these are signs that you are enjoying it. Of course, always be willing to listen, if she asks you to stop or there is discomfort about something, listen and stop. Always think that the idea is to enjoy.
What should I not do when I stimulate my partner's erogenous zones?
Do not force anything, if you see that there is discomfort, stop. Go slowly, especially if you are going to stimulate areas such as the anus, which many women are a little afraid of at first. Before the sexual encounter, talk about what you would like and listen to what your girl wants. Remember that honesty and transparency are essential for good communication that ultimately has an impact on a good sexual relationship. Do not forget that yes, that everything under respect.
Top 5 effective sex toys to stimulate erogenous zones:
If you want your meeting to be 100% exciting, there are some toys that you can include and that will help increase the heat in your date:
- Licky oral sex simulator: This mimics the movements of the tongue and strokes the clitoris from top to bottom, it is a silent vibrator with nine vibration modes and tongue movements. Accompany it with lubricant and you will see the results. You can use it while you stimulate another part of the body.
- Multi-orgasmic gel: This gel provides triple pleasure, it gives the sensation of cold, fire, spicy and vibration. With only a drop of this gel on the area to be stimulated, it is enough for the pleasure to begin to cover the entire body of your girl.
- Belle : A clitoral sucker with which you reach orgasm in just minutes. It works with air waves and 10 speeds. It is submersible.
- Velvet sucker : This has a super original design that adapts to the shape of the body. It allows three suction intensities that help to quickly reach orgasm.
- Double masturbator : It has two holes that imitate the vulva and anus. You will have a feeling like a real penetration, as it is very soft and comfortable to the touch .
