By this time of the century you will all have heard of the clitoris and the famous "G-spot" (which is more of an area, but we'll leave that for another talk). But what few know is that there are several other pleasure points in the female anatomy that it would be a waste to ignore and not explore. Today we will meet one of them: the U point.
What is the U Spot and how to find it?
Despite not knowing of its existence, it is likely that you have already felt it in action because, although little attention is paid to it, our good friend is more within reach than we imagine.
Its name comes from its proximity to the urethra, or rather to the urinary meatus, which is the small and almost invisible hole through which we urinate and which is located between the clitoris and the vagina. The U point is located surrounding this orifice, just above the vaginal entrance.
It is an area innervated by multiple nerve endings, so one must be very careful when stimulating it so as not to saturate it and go from pleasure to discomfort.
The sensitivity of this point is mainly due to the fact that it is covering the urethral glands of Skene, an erectile tissue responsible for vaginal lubrication. A point in favor of our good friend is that by stimulating it, we are likely to get extra lubrication thanks to these glands, which will make everything even more enjoyable!
How to stimulate the U Point?
Now we will move on to what interests us the most, which is knowing how to take advantage of the new discovery to make our sexual relations more pleasant. First of all, we will emphasize the delicacy: remember that the U spot is very sensitive, so we will treat it like a baby so that it will thank us with waves of deep pleasure.
Let's know that the fact that it is called “Point U” does not mean that it is literally a point, nor does it mean that you have to press it like a button! The best way to stimulate it will always be with soft touches or caresses, with the area always very well lubricated so as not to overdo the friction. You will see how he wakes up!
With the fingers
You can start exploring it with your fingers, both yourself and your partner, and discover the sensations and recognize the stimulation that you like the most. The recommendation will always be to use a lot of lubricant, you will see that this makes a big difference! And go drawing subtle circles or eights in the area with the slightest touch possible, almost as if you weren't touching it. This will cause the arousal to rise to a boiling point! When you notice that the body asks for more (but not before) give it a taste by gradually increasing the pressure. Let yourself be carried away by curiosity and experiment with the new area. Do you think you could reach an orgasm with nothing more than the U point?
With the tongue
This is undoubtedly the favorite of all, isn't it? Only the tongue is capable of providing those wet caresses so subtle and precise that they drive us crazy, and the U spot is no exception.
To play with the tongue at point U, I recommend some flavored lubricant for a more interesting experience for both of you. I know what you are going to say: "but the saliva already lubricates". Yes and no. It is true that when practicing oral sex we already have extra lubrication, but many times it is not enough (and also, the saliva ends up drying) and it does not compare to the sensations of a good cunnilingus that you can obtain with the help of a good lubricant when Water. Trust me and don't be stingy with the lube! You are going to thank me.
The simplest and most effective way to stimulate it is to start from the opening of the vagina and lick very gently towards the clitoris, in this way you will be able to discover which sectors provide more pleasure without overwhelming with too much pressure or speed, and then go on consenting to those areas. more sensitive parts that you discovered to give your partner more pleasure. Use your tongue to draw in this area, vertical lines, horizontal lines, circles, eights, whatever, explore and have fun, go gradually, always starting with a soft tongue and adding pressure very little by little. Although it is hard for many to believe, smooth and slow movements are often more exciting than fast and intense ones and can lead us to much longer and deeper orgasms. I invite you to play with your partner and try to get him to orgasm in this way and only with your tongue, can you?
with the penis
Many women will have noticed that simply touching their partner's penis can give them great pleasure and even reach orgasm before penetration. The erect penis is softer than the fingers and provides a very pleasant and exciting touch, so try this:
Again we will use our infallible lubricant to the water and we will distribute it well throughout the penis of our partner and our vulva. Now, you have two ways to stimulate your U spot. You can take his penis and rub the glans around the area, going from the clitoris to the entrance of the vagina, caressing the U spot and as if you were feigning to insert the penis into the vagina, but without doing it. Besides being pleasurable for you, this will be pleasurable for him and the excitement will rise a lot. Another way would be riding on him, but leaving the penis in a horizontal position. In this way you can make movements back and forth with the penis between the lips, as if it were a hotdog , and stimulating both the U spot and the clitoris.
Regarding penetration, there are positions in which some stimulation of the U point is included, such as in the missionary with you on top, where you are lying on it, both with your legs stretched out, and during penetration you will also feel the rubbing of the base of the penis and pelvis against your U spot. Another good option would be the position called “All for me”, in which you will have full control. Here your partner should sit on the edge of the bed or on a chair, and you sit facing him with your legs open. In this way, you will be able to surround him with your legs and control the depth of penetration and the rhythm, rubbing against him and stimulating both the clitoris, U-spot and G-zone, as well as having both of your hands free to caress and stimulate other areas of the body. If you haven't tried this super complete position yet, I don't know what you're waiting for! If you feel like more positions, we recommend the game of sexual positions scratch and win:
with a toy
This point is also sensitive to vibration, so you can stimulate it with a toy that has this ability. Here I will give you a couple of ideas, but let your imagination run wild!
You can use a bullet or some vibrating toy that has a certain point, and with a gentle vibration and your legs wide open, walk gently drawing circles and eights in the area. When the body asks you to, go increasing the power of the vibration. You are going to explode with pleasure! We recommend this erotic game for couples to start with a vibrating bullet:
Another option is with a toy that has a fairly large surface, so that it covers, if possible, the entire vulva or a large part of it. With a toy like this, you won't have to worry so much about exactly where each point is to be stimulated, which will allow you to use your attention and dexterity for other things, for example, the penetration of your partner in a spoon position. This combination will work wonders!
And this has been all for today! I hope you have learned something new that will improve your pleasure experiences. Remember that each body is a world, so give yourself the time to explore it, get to know it and consent to it, the body is generous and it will reward you with more pleasure than you have ever been able to experience. To enjoy!
