It may seem like an extreme practice, however, pegging is becoming more and more common in all types of couples and if you know how to do it, it will surely be an experience that you will want to repeat and incorporate into your sexual relations.
What is pegging ?
Pegging is a practice in which the girl (or a person with a vulva) penetrates her boy with the help of a harness and a dildo, dildo or any other sex toy... She penetrates him! Yes, you read it right!
Although at first it may sound a bit strong, it is something that will undoubtedly take you out of the routine, giving a different touch to the relationship and providing another type of excitement for both the man and the woman, since she becomes the dominant and he the dominated.
In addition to the fantasy that this can mean for many, pegging has some additional benefits that we invite you to learn about.
What are the benefits of pegging ?
In addition to being very pleasant, pegging brings several benefits, one of them, perhaps the most notable, is that it undoubtedly helps to get out of the sexual routine and adds a bit of 'spiciness' to the relationship, generating greater trust between the partner.
Another benefit is that it stimulates the prostate or the so-called P point, an erogenous zone that is touched little or not at all, despite the fact that it is very pleasant since well stimulated it can produce unique orgasms.
Likewise, the fact of changing roles allows you to get to know your partner better.
Of course, we recommend that if you are going to share a dildo or vibrator, use a condom.
How to tell your partner?
If there is good communication this will not be a problem. It will just be a new experience together and something to enjoy. However, clarifying what the fears or expectations are is the key.
Listen to your partner. Sometimes we focus on talking and saying, only what interests us or is important to us and in that rush we forget that we are two, which can end up ending the relationship or interfering so that new experiences are not fully lived.
So if you want to do something, tell him! There is nothing like being clear.
10 Steps to start pegging
If you are liking what you read, we are going to give you some very specific steps so that you can incorporate this practice without problems, whether you have already done it or if it is your first time.
find out
Read, ask and if it is the case, advise yourself with an expert. Do not be afraid or ashamed to inform yourself, the success of your sexual relationship and the enjoyment of this practice depend to a large extent on that. Don't get carried away by other people's experiences either, remember that sexuality is something for everyone and as they say 'who lives it is who enjoys it'.
Buy the material you need
This is essential, do not skimp on expenses. Remember that to do pegging, in addition to willingness and imagination, you must have some items on hand.
Here is a list of what you cannot miss:
- Harness : it is essential that you try it on beforehand. Check that it is your size and that it is comfortable for you. It is not recommended that you try it on minutes before practice. You should familiarize yourself with it and see that it fits you perfectly.
- Dildo: Starting with a dildo is an excellent idea. The first few times it is recommended small and made of silicone, over time you can change to a larger vibrator. It is important that it is flexible and that you can clean it easily. Remember that in addition to being comfortable there are some that are quite cute.
- Lubricant: We recommend a water-based one, which combines perfectly with the silicone of the dildo. There are some special ones for the anal area. You can try it in the amount you want, as it will facilitate the experience and make it irresistible.
Say no to anesthetics
The idea is to feel. If you apply painkillers you inhibit pain, so you won't know if you're hurting yourself, so it's not recommended. If there is a lot of pain or you don't feel well you should stop. The idea is not that you hurt yourself, but that you feel good and want more.
Slowly, "smooth, soft"
Don't rush, enjoy it. First they must be sure that they want to do it and start calmly to be able to identify what they like best or how they feel most comfortable, all of which will increase the degree of enjoyment. Ask how you are doing or learn a little to read your boy's face, his movements and gestures will tell you everything.
Listen
We have already told you, but really listening is essential. If the penetrated person asks you to stop, it's time for you to do it, they can try it later, if they decide so. All under mutual respect, calm and patience.
easy poses
Don't complicate yourself wanting to do a thousand postures in a single moment, or inventing things that you don't even know how to do. Remember that like everything, this type of practice is also a bit 'trial and error'. So start with easy postures, there are no good or bad postures, only comfortable postures. The one you like and enjoy the most will be their posture.
They could rehearse with one like the puppy, for example, which helps to have good control and is simple, from then on experiment and explore as a couple.
Do not judge
If for some reason your partner at the time of penetration suffers an escape, do not judge him, do not embarrass him, it is completely normal. For this, it is recommended to have wet wipes on hand or do some anal washing first.
Weather
Pegging is not to be done running, you must have time, this is to be enjoyed little by little. In a comfortable place and in a pleasant environment that stimulates the senses. It is not worth being in a hurry! If you have it, it is better that you leave it for another day.
Preamble
Do not immediately go to the point either, prior stimulation is very important. All the sexual preamble prepares you for the moment of penetration, kisses and caresses play a very important role in the previous moment, don't forget it and take your time to play for a while.
Imagination
If you want to give practice a little more excitement, try to buy other toys, in addition to the harness, some handcuffs, for example, a mask or something that makes your imagination run wild. Some candles to decorate, a cool smell and good music give a very personal touch to this meeting, which does not have to be far from romantic or grotesque at all.
We encourage you to explore! Sexuality is a path with many happy destinations that you can reach, it depends on you and your partner. If they do it responsibly and safely they will have everything to enjoy it.
