What is a striptease?
Alright, let's start from the base. Striptease is not just about taking off your clothes and finally being as God brought us into the world, it is much more than that.
“ Striptease ” from the English “strip” (to undress) and “tease” (to tempt) is rather a sensual dance, a show, in which the objective is to provoke in the public the desire for greater exhibition by showing little by little and with sensual and suggestive movements. That is to say, the key to striptease is not in the nudity itself, but in the act of provoking with the action of undressing in a sensual way.
To this end it is common for the stripper to wear additional clothing under the removed garments to prolong the suspense, or to play cover-up with the already removed garments or hands. The aesthetic production and the costumes are the main elements used by the erotic dancers, although the music and the lights are usually important, being able to also add some other supporting object to the staging.
It is customary to end the performance when the performer finishes taking off her clothes, although even in this instance it is quite frequent that the nude is not complete.
benefits of a striptease
Of course, in erotic and sexual practices, everything is left to everyone's taste and choice, and there are those who will feel more or less comfortable showing off or dancing, but here I will leave you with some reasons why I think it would be interesting for you to give yourself permission to experience this practice and, above all, enjoy it.
- The first is exactly that, experiment. How many times have you thought that you weren't going to like something, but it was enough for you to try it to change your mind? Have fun, let go, explore and discover.
- Another reason that I can give you is that precisely if you have certain complexes with your body, this is a good way to discover yourself in another way, empower yourself, feel sexy and recover your self-esteem. Simply preparing and looking with a sensual and different outfit will make you see yourself in a different way in front of the mirror, especially when your partner drools when he sees you!
- Also, if you have a stable partner, this type of intimate and shared games will increase trust between you, get to know each other more thoroughly, in new facets, discover yourself in new areas and in the company of the other. You will see that you will feel more complicity.
- And if the couple has been together for many years and trust is what is left over, what better than a good striptease to get out of the routine and re-ignite that spark of passion? Remember that sexual life in long-term couples must be continuously nourished so that monotony does not ruin it. Normally it is believed that having been married for years, sex becomes automatic and there is nothing to do anymore, but it is not so! And living a full sexual life with your partner depends on the desire and creativity that you have.
- And lastly, eroticism and desire are directly related to pleasure at the time of sexual encounter. Basically, the better the foreplay and the more arousal and desire increase, the better the orgasms!
Step by Step Striptease
Alright, back to where we came from! If you have never done it before, it is likely that you get involved thinking about how, when, where, with what and who knows how many other things, so I am going to simplify the task for you by listing the things that you will need so that you can have it prepared .
Appointment
Many think that in sex it is better that everything be spontaneous, but believe me that some things are more enjoyable when you have been planning and wishing for them in advance. Choose a space and time in which you will be able to be with your partner without interruptions or distractions, you can even invite them to make sure that unforeseen events will not ruin the meeting, use creativity! You could leave him a scented card saying that a surprise awaits him at such a time and place, or send him racy photos to prepare the ground until he gets home, it's up to you!
Locker room
This is possibly the most important point. In addition to being sensual, the ideal is that the wardrobe has several layered clothes to be able to gradually remove them, so if you choose a nice lingerie, try to also choose some interesting clothes to cover it. It can be clothes that you already have, combining them in a creative way, or surprise with something new that your partner has never seen. Remember that in addition to the above, the most important thing here is actually that YOU feel sensual. Beyond how objectively you see yourself (if there is an objective way of seeing) what really seduces is what you transmit, and your sensuality will come from how confidently you show yourself, your posture, your self-confidence, create a fire! and you will be!
Dance
Relax, you don't need to be very talented here, so "I don't know how to dance" is no excuse. I recommend that while you are planning everything, or even while you shower, you put on a playlist that turns you on and you let go of your body while listening to it. You will see that after a few songs your temperature will have risen and your body will tell you how it wants to move. If you want a little more technique you can look for some choreography on YouTube, but my recommendation is that you don't focus so much on that, since at the moment what will matter most is what you transmit and your connection with your partner, and having your head in the compass it will take away your spontaneity. Choose your favorite hot music, dance it your way, enjoy the experience, let your body speak!
Stage
I find this part super funny. Here again you must let your imagination run wild. You are the star of the show! So imagine, what will your scenario be? where will your partner be? how should the lights be? what extra things will you use? Here you can add whatever you like, candles, aromas, cushions, little things for later like an aphrodisiac sandwich, something to spread and lick, toys to have other sensory experiences, etc. For your dance you could also add something that contributes to the show or that serves as support for when you don't know how to follow (or if you need to balance with heels!), like a chair, there are very sexy dances that can be done with chairs, without tell that later you could sit your partner there to do whatever you want. You could also use whips, ropes, canes, handkerchiefs, Arabic dance wings, in short, whatever you like and whatever you think you can dance sensually with.
The moment of the show
We have reached the long-awaited moment of striptease! Do you see how when something is made to be desired, it is enjoyed more? Here everything will depend on what is coming to you at the moment, but I will give you some tips that can help you.
It starts very slowly. I recommend that you choose a melody that is soft most of the time and that it intensifies for brief moments, in this way the rhythm will guide you and you can use the most intense moments to take off something or show more.
Let go and rock to the rhythm of the music, pretend that you are in the sea and the rhythm is the waves that move your body, let yourself go!
Caress your body while you look at your partner with intensity, observe and appropriate the desire in his gaze, be aware of what you provoke, use the security that this gives you to let go and provoke more, enjoy that interaction and the coming and going of the growing desire between you. You have the control!
We've come to the end for today! I hope you enjoyed it and it made you want to experiment a bit with striptease. These have been some ideas but there are endless variations so you can customize this practice to your style, so there are no excuses! To enjoy!
